A hesitation filler used while searching for words, equivalent to 'um', 'er' or 'let's see'. Unlike その, it refers to nothing: it only buys the speaker time.
You say this while you are still deciding what to say, like "um" or "let me see". It fills the pause and nothing more.
"Are you ready to order?" "Um, I'll have this pasta, please."
Um, what time was the next meeting again?
"How was the movie yesterday?" "Er, to be honest, it wasn't very good."
Should we have curry for dinner tonight, or, um, should we have ramen?
Let's see, where did I put my keys... Ah, here they are.
This word is like "um" or "er." It is very similar to "ええと." But "えっと" sounds a bit faster. "えっと" is for when you are thinking. "あの" is for when you want to get someone's attention. Or when you want to speak softly to them.
Watch out: You can use 「えっと」 when you speak with friends. Do not use it in formal places. For example, do not use it in a job interview. Using it too much can make you seem unsure. A short, quiet pause is better in formal talks.
Use this when you want to think. It helps you find the right words. It is like saying "um" or "uh" in English. It tells others you are still talking.
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