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    3. 〜かい

    〜かい

    〜かい

    This word asks a yes or no question. Older men often use it. They use it with people younger than them. It sounds very casual and manly.

    N3KMT5CasualSentence Ending ParticleSpoken OnlyOlder SpeakersMasculineCasual Sentence Enders Neutral MasculineGrammar

    Verb [dictionary form] + かいPrimary
    い-Adjective + かい
    な-Adjective + かい
    Noun + かい

    This word asks a yes or no question. Older men often use it. They use it with people younger than them. It sounds very casual and manly.

    君きみ、仕し事ごとは順じゅん調ちょうかい?

    Is your work going smoothly?

    CasualNon PastAffirmativeSentence EndingDeclarativeWork & Career
    おや、もう昼ひる飯めしは済すませたかい?

    Oh, have you finished lunch already?

    CasualPastAffirmativeSentence EndingDeclarativeDaily LifeFood & Dining
    この映えい画が、あまり面おも白しろくないかい?

    This movie isn't very interesting, is it?

    CasualNon PastNegativeSentence EndingDeclarativeMusic & Entertainment
    てめえ、まだ生いきているかい?

    You bastard, you still alive?

    RoughProgressiveAffirmativeSentence EndingEmphaticAnime & Manga
    祖そ父ふから『元げん気きでやっているかい』と手て紙がみが来きた。

    A letter came from my grandfather asking, 'Are you doing well?'

    NeutralProgressiveAffirmativeMid SentenceDeclarativeFamily & Relationships

    Using "~kai" shows you are older or higher up. It can sound kind, like a father. Or it can sound like you are looking down on someone. It can also sound like a challenge. You often hear it from older men in stories.

    This is different from "~ka". "~ka" is a normal question. "~kai" is more casual. It sounds more like an older man talking. It is also softer than "~no ka". "~no ka" can sound like you are accusing someone. "~kai" is not as strong as "~no ka yo". That ending shows strong surprise or anger.

    Don't use this when you ask questions with "what," "where," or "when." For example, you can't say "What is itかい?"

    Use this when you want to check something. You might already think you know the answer. Or you want to gently question someone. It is like saying, "Is that really true?"

    Contrasts with(1)

    〜のか

    This is a question word. You use it when you are surprised. You also use it when you want more information.

    辞書形

    This is the basic form of a verb. It is what you find in a dictionary. You use it to make other verb forms.

    〜い / 〜かった

    This is the basic form of an い-adjective. It describes a quality of something. You use it for present or past qualities.

    〜だ / 〜だった

    This means 'is' or 'was'. It is the casual way to say 〜です and 〜でした.

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