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    3. 〜てあげる

    〜てあげる

    〜てあげる

    To do an action for someone as a favor, from the giver's perspective.

    N4KMT3NeutralStandardAuxiliary ConstructionMixedGiving And Receiving ActionsGrammar

    Verb [て-form] + あげるPrimary

    You do something good for another person. You are helping them. You are the one giving the help.

    友とも達だちの宿しゅく題だいを手て伝つだってあげる。

    I'll help my friend with their homework.

    NeutralNon PastAffirmativeSentence EndingVolitionalEducationFamily & Relationships
    弟おとうとに新あたらしいゲームを買かってあげたんだ。

    I bought a new game for my younger brother.

    CasualPastAffirmativeSentence EndingDeclarativeFamily & RelationshipsGames
    もう時じ間かんがないから、これ以い上じょうは手て伝つだってあげない。

    There's no more time, so I'm not helping you any further.

    CasualNon PastNegativeSentence EndingDeclarativeWork & CareerDaily Life
    後あとで駅えきまで送おくってあげますから、心しん配ぱいしないでください。

    I'll give you a ride to the station later, so please don't worry.

    PoliteNon PastAffirmativeMid SentenceDeclarativeTravel & TransportationDaily Life
    猫ねこが病びょう気きだったので、一いち日にち中じゅうそばにいてあげた。

    My cat was sick, so I stayed by its side all day.

    NeutralPastAffirmativeSentence EndingDeclarativeAnimalsMedicine & Health

    Imagine you are giving a gift. This grammar shows you are the giver. It can sound a bit proud. So, use it with people you know well. Or with people younger than you. Avoid it with bosses or strangers.

    This is different from '〜てくれる'. That means someone does something for you. This is also different from '〜てやる'. That is a rude way to say you do something for someone. You use '〜てやる' for animals or people you feel are below you.

    Don't use this when talking to someone above you. For example, don't use it with your boss. That would be rude. Use other humble words instead.

    Contrasts with(2)

    〜てくれる

    This shows someone did something nice for you. They did it for you or your family. The person who did it is usually your equal or lower in status.

    〜てもらう

    This means someone does a favor for you. You get help from them. It is good for you.

    More formal alternatives(1)

    〜てやる

    You do something for someone or something else. This is for people or things below you. It is also for plants or animals.

    Less formal alternatives(1)

    〜て差し上げる

    This phrase means "I do something for you." You use it when you do something for someone important. It shows respect to that person.

    て形

    This is a special form of words. You use it to connect actions or ideas. It can mean "and then," "because," or "by doing something."

    〜に (indirect object)

    This word shows who gets something. It shows who an action or feeling is for.

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